You have to find where your linklist is looped through. So first off you should tag your customers 'wholesale' or something like that. When you locate your linklist loop, you can make a condition that checks if the customer's tags has 'wholesale' in it, if it does assign a variable that is equal to the handle of the menu that you want to loop through. Lets assume your menu you want most people to see is called "Main Menu", and assume your wholesale menu is called "Wholesale".
{% if customer.tags contains 'wholesale' %}
{% assign current_linklist = 'wholesale' %}
{% else %}
{% assign current_linklist = 'main-menu' %}
{% endif %}
{% for link in linklists[current_linklist].links %}
// code to output your linklist
{% endfor %}
That's essentially the process you'll have to follow. I can do it for you if you need. Just let me know your store url and I can request access to your store and get it done for you.
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