Im underage and wanting to add my banking, but its asking for information (Name, DOB, SSN) do i add my SSN or my parent? i'd prefer to add mine.

im 17, i have my own debit card and is very excited ti start my own business, but i only have 1 issue and that is submitting a SSN or ID, i would ask my parents but they wont because they're old and ...

let's say a user orders a product, is it sent before or after the money is in my bank?