when i just started back in 2018, i thought the best way to grow was to throw money at ads.
but if your margins are tight and your AOV is low — that’ll kill you real fast.
here’s what i mean:
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average CPC: $2–$3
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average conversion from ads: ~5% (1 sale per 20 visitors if you’re lucky)
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my AOV was $25
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profit after product + shipping = $17
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cost to get a single conversion = ~$40
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so… $17 profit for $40 ad spend = -200% ROI ?

obviously, i had to fix something.
so i started looking at what bigger brands with low AOVs were doing and surprisingly, most of them weren’t running ads aggressively
instead, they doubled down on customer retention and organic content.
but i was terrible at TikTok.
so i went all-in on retention.
that meant talking to people who already showed interest like old customers, abandoned checkouts, even visitors who clicked around but didn’t buy.
i don’t see many people talk about this. and it’s wild.
so i found a tool that helps me reconnect with those customers automatically
I set it up to send support style messages like:
“hey, just checking in how’s everything going with that LED lamp you ordered last month? all good?”
if they replied, the AI suggested another product they might like, and i’d send a small offer like free shipping or a bundle.
this small change boosted repeat orders, customer happiness, and honestly, brand trust too.
people started saying stuff like “my girlfriend told me about this brand” or “my mom has one, so i grabbed the same in another color.”
it turned into a word-of-mouth loop and i didn’t have to rely so hard on paid ads anymore.
not saying it’s the only strategy, but it was a gamechanger for me.
here’re my recommendations:
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write like support, not sales
those “you forgot something” or new summer sale emails people ignore them -
don’t spam
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only offer discounts if they reply
never led with offers. just added a little bonus after they engaged. -
send helpful emails
tips, how-tos, suggestions on how to use what they bought.
if you want to automate it try this.
im not saying stop all your ad campaigns, but be smart, always track your ROI especially when you’re bootstrapping.